Same here, was really excited for this as it was the first secret Santa I've participated in, but I get back today to find both my gifter and giftee were grinches so I've reclaimed my items (although I dunno where they are, I just clicked the button) :/
Kinda a big disappointment/ let down. Would have been nice for people to be rematched once the system knew who the grinches were...... Although I dunno how much of a hassle that would have been.